People often have trouble making plans with their loved ones as they age, which can leave families unprepared when unexpected circumstances arise. Over and over, Raya’s Paradise works with families whose aging parents experience a sudden accident or illness, leaving them scrambling to identify the best option under time pressure and fear.
The answer is to start those conversations early, before a crisis forces the decision.
Start With a Conversation, Not a Plan
Monica Westphaln, Chief Operating Officer and Social Worker at Raya’s Paradise, recommends that the first step is finding a good time to talk with an aging parent. “Make sure you listen to what they want rather than bringing them a plan,” Westphaln advises. By taking time to listen, families can take preferences into account and create an individual plan for care that preserves both independence and dignity.
Including a loved one in the conversation assures them they are important to the family and keeps the dialogue open over time. Starting early also reduces stress significantly. In the event of a crisis, families who have had these conversations can feel confident that the actions taken are aligned with the wants and needs of their parent.
Know What to Watch For
Part of planning ahead means knowing when circumstances are changing. If you’re noticing shifts in your parent’s daily routines, safety, memory or mood, the
signs it may be time for assisted living checklist can help your family name what you’re observing and decide on a clear next step.
Support That Grows With Your Family
Raya’s Paradise trained team members and clinical professionals are available to provide continuing education to families as needs progress. Families who have joined the Raya’s Paradise community have found an accessible network of professionals who offer guidance and direction throughout the aging process.
Explore our assisted living communities in Los Angeles and Orange County, or
contact our team to learn how we can support your family’s plan.
